Your Child Isn’t A Competitor Because You’re Not One
Teaching our kids that they always have to share can actually hinder their competitiveness. If you have siblings, you know exactly what I mean. When Leo takes Luke’s toy, Luke turns into the Hulk, doing whatever it takes to get it back. But when Luke grabs Leo’s toy, I used to say, "Leo, he’s younger, you need to share." I’ve stopped that, and if you follow me on social media, you’ll see that my two boys often go head to head when it’s time to settle things, especially when we’re competing. I encourage them to “fight” for what they want and earn their ball back (no punching, of course).
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